• Home
  • About
  • Blog
  • Speaker
  • Books

Debra Irene

Till Death Do Us Part

November 3, 2010 By Debra Irene 6 Comments

3 Nov

Last weekend, I attended the wedding of a friend’s daughter.  I absolutely love weddings and firmly believe in the formality of a ceremony and all of the festivities.  There’s something about reciting the vows in front of family and friends and sharing your joy with others that signifies the event.  I was so honored to be invited.  I don’t believe there was a stone left unturned in the preparation of this wedding.  My friend coordinated an amazing event for her daughter – down to the last detail – even kissed by mother nature.  Who would have thought that planning an outdoor wedding (almost a year in advance) in the midwest on October 30 would yield a day of sunshine, 72 degrees, and no wind!  But that’s not all – a string quartet playing Canon in D on the grounds of a country mansion just before sunset (I think you get the picture).

I can think of two other weddings that stand out in my mind like this one – both several years ago.  One was a Christmas wedding.  This was my first experience of hearing only strings for the music selection.  The music was as captivating as the Christmas tree adorned with wedding lace, tulle, and white lights standing at attention on the platform awaiting the wedding party as the bride’s brothers in full military uniform escorted everyone to their seats.  Then there was the wedding of a friend who married somewhat later in life – what a special day for her.  It was my hometown church, decent size, and seated to capacity.  The bride and groom dismissed each row and, more specifically, greeted each person as they left their seat – what a personal touch.

As I reflect on these weddings, I realize that the couples are still together.  While many marriages end in broken vows, they seem to be on the road of “till death do us part” – the way God intended.   I’m sure that love, self-sacrifice, and commitment have sustained them.  But may I also suggest that perhaps they weighed carefully through prayer and Godly counsel their choice?   Taking time to make sure that God is the one bringing you together will make it easier to walk together as one for a lifetime.

Filed Under: Uncategorized

Previous Post: « Get Out of Your Lunchbox
Next Post: The Lifter of My Head »

Reader Interactions

Comments

  1. Brenda Dunagan says

    November 3, 2010 at 9:31 pm

    That is so amazingly true! And what beautiful word pictures you paint of these events. Captivating.

    Reply
  2. Debra Irene says

    November 3, 2010 at 9:36 pm

    If I had known you when you got married and would have been invited, you would be in my hall-of-fame weddings too!

    Reply
  3. Sister Vickie says

    November 11, 2010 at 9:32 pm

    Looking forward to your next post and your book!

    Reply
  4. Friend Cathy says

    November 14, 2010 at 7:42 am

    Like Vickie, I’m looking forward to your next post too! We need them more often. I know you are not busy or anything.

    Reply
  5. Myrna says

    November 30, 2011 at 6:49 pm

    How honored I am to have been included in your hall-of-fame!!!!! You have no idea how this has blessed me–and inspired me–to keep on keeping on! 🙂
    Much love to you!

    Reply

Trackbacks

  1. Once a Bridesmaid | Debra Irene says:
    November 27, 2011 at 11:32 pm

    […] the way; but their marriage has stood the test of time.  I have to say that theirs is among my hall-of-fame weddings.  And I am so glad to have them in my […]

    Reply

Leave a Reply Cancel reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *

Primary Sidebar

Connect with Debra

  • Facebook
  • Twitter
  • YouTube

Recent Posts

  • Look Up
  • The Back Story
  • Frugal Easter Blessing
  • Meet Me in the Air
  • For Susan

HOME    ABOUT    BLOG     SPEAKER   BOOKS   Contact

 

Privacy Policy | Terms of Use

 

Debra Irene @ Copyright © 2023 All Rights Reserved